And I thought I was one of a kind

There is a gene (at least in my bloodline) that is passed on from generation to generation giving the recipient the ability to tell a story. A very believeable story. I won't say a good story, because that's subjective. But, well, just sit back, read and enjoy.

When I was a little girl, I had a very active imagination. Most children do. This is not what set me apart from the rest. No. What made me different from others was the fact that I would tell stories and make others believe they happened to me. I could conjur up an endless stream of tears if it was necessary, to have my audience eating out of my hand.
Two prime examples come from my aunt and my mom.

I must have been in kindergarten or around that age, I'm not sure on that fact. We were visiting with some family in Arizona and I wove a tale of heartbreak and tragedy that went something like this:
My dear friend was playing in her yard with a ball when her ball bounced away from her and into the street. She chased the ball and that was when, out of nowhere, a school bus came and she got run over and died.
Ummm, yeah. I had no such friend. I had never even known anyone who this had happened to. But my aunt says that I told this to her with such conviction and so dramatically, she felt horrible for me and that I had to deal with such trauma at a young age. She went to my mom with great concern. My mom put her mind at ease and let her know that I was fine. It was a story. Not real. Basically, I was a liar.

The next time my mom became aware of my talent was after recieving a phone call from a very concerned neighbor. This neighbor had called my mom to see if she needed meals brought in or if my mom needed her to watch the other kids, or if she needed a ride to the hospital. When my mom assured her that she was fine and there was nothing wrong, she said, "Well, Emily came over and asked if I could babysit her because you were sick and were waiting for your husband to come home to take you to the hospital." Pshhh. She was so naive. I only wanted to play and I needed to know that she wasn't going to turn me away at the door, so I had devised a surefire way to get me into her daughter's bedroom. It worked.

Fast forward to this morning. I got a phone call from my friend who has a daughter the same age as Corrine. The two are best friends. We were chatting and she began to tell me about a conversation she had with her own daughter last night. (We had spent the weekend with them.) Apparently, Corrine had told Cèlin that when we lived in Arizona, our house burned down and our dogs, Ellie and Sadie were inside and they burned down with the house. It was very sad. We were gone away for the weekend and when we came home, all we found were ashes of what had been.
Needless to say, this was incorrect. Sadie was my dog when I still lived at home and she died a little over 3 years ago, I think. And Ellie was Corrine's cousins' dog who died about 6 months ago. Our house never burned down. No one died or was hurt. Very unexciting.

So, I guess now I'm wondering where I go from here. Do I reprimand Corrine for falsifying information? Do I let it go and chalk it up to an overactive imagination? Do I praise her for her ability to sell a story? I mean, truly, what's the difference between writing it down and saying it out loud? Does one make it more acceptable than another? What do you think?

Comments

Danielle said…
Hmm...how about rather than discouraging this amazing talent, you put it to use. i.e. buy corrine a really sweet lookin' journal and tell her to write all of her amazing stories to her heart's desire. Then have her gather the neighborhood kids and direct her stories in neighborhood plays (she can be the main character of course).

P.S. I don't know what "i.e." stands for. How embarrassing. I'm getting my master's degree and have always been too embarrassed to actually ask what it stands for.

P.S.S. lisids
Unknown said…
ERMA!!!! I LOVE IT, you tell you little Corrine that she is VERY talented, that when she feels the need to tell a story to (like said above) to write it down, some day, just some day unlike her mother....who could be sooo wealthy because of the book(s) she has UNWRITTEN in her head and NEVER published...you want her to become the writer of sorts you would be, other than on BLOGS! hehehehehehehelololol. You are remarkable you know! I love you to pieces, and believe me...when I say, the writer in me is BURIED too! except in BLOG heaven! and computer journal HEAVEN! I love the story she told....Mike's Owen is also the same way, like Mike was...and is....tells story after story of the unimaginable...Owen has an imaginary friend called Journey. He lives on the front porch. Owen has lots of stories to tell about Journey and their adventures...some day I will write them on my blog too!
Mandy said…
As your sister I can honestly say she is so your daughter. You and Kev are the story tellers of the family for sure!!!! I love it!!!!
Penny said…
Words of Advice from your mom- "what goes around,comes around"

Dad and I are still laughing at Rinnee's story. this is so great!
love, mom
Terrie said…
Simply encourage her. That way when I am 90 years old, I will have you and her keeping me in stitches. The more laughter in our lives, the better. Love you!

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